Did you ever feel unloved as a teenager by your generally good parent(s)? have you reconciled?
For example, you had been very close in childhood, hung out, were best friends.
As you grew older and started to individuate you grew distant, as kids and teens do. The relationship changed.
Why did you feel unloved?
If there was any kind of abuse please this Q is not for you folks.
I am adressing this to the peeps who were lucky enough to not be abused s*xually/physically or neglected with the necessities of life.
Did you tell them why you felt unloved or unappreciated?
Did it have to do with other family members, health issues of parent(s), etc?
Did they step up and show you that you are loved, did it even matter at that point?
Did you eventually reconcile with your parent(s)?