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Did you feel guilty when you asked your spouse for a divorce?

I want a divorce, but feel too guilty to ask for one.

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    MariposaRoja1891 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by MariposaRoja1891 Jan 14th, 2013 at 12:39PM

    I'm happily married and don't think divorce should even be an option in a marriage unless someone is in real danger - meaning a reason bettter than "I got married too soon and now don't like it." So if my marriage ended, it would be in death or go down in flames because it would take a murder to end it.

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  1. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by chimbie88 Jan 14th, 2013 at 12:38PM

    I'm sure you'll be a lot happier if you do. I'd feel proud actually if I were you... cause you are doing something for you... and that's not easy. Your happiness is important.

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  2. Sbgf225 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Sbgf225 Jan 14th, 2013 at 12:36PM

    Incredibly. It almost broke me to say it. But you have to if that's what you want

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  3. bmaninca - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by bmaninca Jan 14th, 2013 at 1:12PM

    I am not sure if guilt is the word... I felt bad that it was so painful for her to realize... I had said in the past that I had wanted a divorce but I had to just out it on her because she didnt seem to realize so I let her have it.

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  4. Confusedlo20 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Confusedlo20 Jan 14th, 2013 at 12:56PM

    i feel guilty jjst thinking about it lol but were happy enough we fight we argue too many times but divorce is the last straw i don t see myself ever getting that far i dnt kno your situation but getting divorce should be left until you have no choice why do you want a divorce

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  5. Difum - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by Difum Jan 14th, 2013 at 12:56PM

    If you feel guilty about asking for a divorce then your reasoning for asking is not right. Sounds as if you are the one doing the damage.

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  6. OnlyOnus - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by OnlyOnus Jan 14th, 2013 at 12:48PM

    Not at all, she hit me!
    And I didn't ask for it I demanded it.

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  7. reConTroller - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by reConTroller Jan 14th, 2013 at 12:41PM

    When I lied, yes.

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  8. IamJody - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by IamJody Jan 14th, 2013 at 12:40PM

    When you get to that point, guilt is not an option..I got a divorce five years ago, I even packed his bags myself, loaded them up and sent him on his way..There's was no love left in my marriage, he was a bad person...Best of luck to you in whatever you decide to do..Just remember life is too short to live it miserably :)

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  9. lija30 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by lija30 Jan 14th, 2013 at 12:38PM

    no , because after he slept with juicy stacy and she posted the pics of them in bed together in myspace i was good to go.....If you know you are not happy and you know that sooner or later you will cheat then go ahead and divorce. First, find out why you want to divorce him, is it money? his looks? sex? or is this something that can be fixed if you just talk to him? The single world is very lonely and there is no one to come home to and nobbody to talk to once you close that door. Dating out here is so sad and the guys are creepy , crazy, or not stable. Think really hard before you do this make sure the reason for the divorce is something you can live with.

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  10. timanonymous - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by timanonymous Jan 14th, 2013 at 12:37PM

    Yes. But what was I supposed to do? Live in misery for the rest of my life. Oh hell no. You aren't in your 20s forever...

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  11. cpgnatly - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by cpgnatly Jan 14th, 2013 at 12:37PM

    It was difficult, but her continued bad conduct told me I made the right choice.

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