I recognize the second kind.
I'm full of fear, and I never take any risks. I've feel damaged at 24. I even just pushed away someone I loved-again
I'm still hopeful to fix it. I can see the fault, i just have to get the courage to push to stop it
Me too. It hurts every time someone talk to me, I only give one word answers and I can get so attached to people and when they leave, it hurts
Yeah, I figured this out a while ago when I realized my inability to say "No" to people thanks to my dad
In a way. If I don't trust the person, then you can't get me to say yes. But if I trust them, then you can't get me to say no.
My boyfriend already figured it out, though he's never used it against me. My other friends don't talk to me enough to use it against me.
I'm sorry that happens to you. Usually if you **** me off I'll tell you off and probably never talk to or look at you again. So that never happens. Plus people find me intimidating anyway
In that case, every thing that enters our minds.. be it from school, parents, friends its all brainwashing.
Everything one is told should be questioned and mulled over before being either accepted, rejected or tabled for further reflection.
Children don't have the tools at a very young age to think critically. A parent who brainwashes a child with the right survival tools until they're ready is doing a good job.
Do they? I think society does that for them. I rarely hear about parents filling their child's head with nonsense.
Give me examples.
Okay, see this is different! This has nothing to do with the way other parents raise their children. You mother was clearly suffering from depression and obviously not fit to be a parent (no offense).
How do you know what my home life is like. Sure, it was noting compared to yours but my home life isn't "good" at all. I said it was pretty rare for parents in their right mind to go this.
Yes, you are right. Not every parent is in their right mind. I think something needs to be done about that. I'm just saying, I think it is rare for parents to try and manipulate children like you mom did with you.