Yes, actions do speak much louder than we realize at the time. Things are not always what they seem to be and can be interpeted wrong. It's a matter of perspective I think. We should take in the actions and the words - if the jive usually it's right. :)
Actions are always truthful. The cold hearted hug, the ignore, etc.
I dont believe in sayings all the time. i go with my instincts. "The secret of life is honesty and fair dealing. If you can fake that, you've got it made." - Groucho Marx
Hubert cumberdale, you taste like soot and poo