Looks don't matter much to me. I'd much rather be with a woman with a great personality.
if she's a jerk she can take a hike. looks matter only so much. really strange appearances can be difficult to get used to at first, but i'm willing to take the time to let it grow on me.
initially looks matter. it's the first impression. i'm not perfect.
Depends. Sometimes a girl with a selfish attitude is just putting up barriers because she's been hurt before. Completely depends with each girl but I'd be willing to give it time and see what happens, trust is never immediate in a relationship. That said, if you're a few months in and she's still totally self-absorbed and distant then screw that
Guys for the most part aren't all that shallow that they choose just one thing to notice. Seriousy, its the whole package that we notice.
If you are too quiet then all they can do is look at you which it looks like that works pretty good in your case for sure! lol
I can't speak for every guy out there, but from my past and recent experiences. I would say that some guys or at least the guys i've met only care about how pretty a girl is first and the personality is just a plus.