if one person choose it cant be a relationship.....so both choose each other
It's a dual process, not one way, and any belief that one or the other is dominant in selection can be shown to be false quite quickly when they get turned down.
They both choose each other.
I think it's a case of two people choosing one another
Both my wives told me that they let me chase them till they caught me.
The real issue here is not the choice, it is the good Communication, which always works both ways...
Women choose guys but they make them think the opposite is true.