Guys who leave for that are complete a-holes, be assured.
Guy here. Never left a girl because she wasn't pretty / pretty enough. Left relationships because she was consistently rude/disrespectful, or cheated, or told me that I wasn't up to her standards (these preferred the ex-con-wannabe-gangsta-always-unemployed type). You develop a relationship because there is some mutual attraction as well as a friendship so basically both of you know what you are getting into before the nudity starts.
Also remember- Honey boo boo's mother has a boyfriend. Think about it.
If they thought u were ugly, they would never have gone near you.
It has very little to nothing to do with your looks. If the guy was willing to ask you out to begin with he finds you attractive. If he left it was because the relationship wasn't giving him whatever he felt he needed to be happy. That may, or may not, have had much to do with you at all honestly. Keep yourself well-groomed and self-confident and trust me the right man will find you more than 'pretty enough'. Look in the mirror tomorow right into your eyes. Don't look anywhere else but right into your eyes and then tell yourself... "I'm more than my physical shell... I'm a complete person and that person is pretty damn fantastic". Keep telling yourself this because it is true.
No. However in a relationship I expect to be the ob
So, basically it's only something that you have created in your mind. You believe it even though you've been told its not true. Why are you fooling yourself into believing that? Maybe he left because of your insecurities...not because of your appearance.
if he did hes a jerk....but sugar confidence is important ...you might need to work out your self esteem issues or your going to keep getting bad results
hadyourchance: Excellent reply!
you do have some self esteem issues and if thats why he left you you are better off without him.
You don't know why he left.
She answered her own Q with this:
"That could have the reason; my helpless smothering and jealousy. "........
Maybe he left because of HIS issues. Not your issues.
That kind of reasoning is a cop out...for anyone.
Oh, okay. I guess it's entirely the fault of the one who got left behind then. Thanks for straightening that out.
Keep living... You'll find the right guy.
People leave for various reasons. Personally, I think that women should wait until 25 + before a serious relationship. Men 30+... It gives you time to develop your career path via military or college.
if its a fiance its probably unlikely that its about your physical features.... if he is that shallow then why would he consider having a relationship with you in the first place?
you are thinking about this in the wrong direction...
that means its not about you. its about him not fit for a real monogamous relationship....
most.... its in the nature... most men think they need to get enough until they get contented thats when they will start to have a commitment. Its not your fault... take it this way, he saved you years of regrets and you deserve someone better
The shallow ones do its best to take some time trying to get to know someone so they dont just eant to have sex with you then dump you
the true beauty look into 'heart'...its very important to show our beauty..trust me.
I can honestly say, I have never left anyone for that reason.
They are very shallow and you don't need that..wait for someone who loves you for who you are :)
No they leave cause they fear your too pretty for them
Simple when a guy says a girl gets old or fades away what they really mean is they move on to keep from getting hurt so to speak they think you'll dump them cause u r so pretty so they try to dump u as soon as they can i dont get it either but my best guy friend explaned it to me
That's is probably not why he left. You were maybe too clingy and looking for reassurance. Guys get sick of that. You can be the most beautiful girl in the world but if you keep on expecting reassurance for your bf, he's going to leave your a self-confident, happy girl.
See my reply to DanCan1. Of course she's looking for reassurance NOW. Anybody does, in the emotional turmoil following a breakup.
More likely they would leave because of your insecurity. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
They probably leave because your insecurities create closeness issues, or makes them feel like they can't make you happy. I've been down that road more than twice.
Shallow ****** might, but real guys would not, no.
This seems to be much more about you, than any 'guy ' behavior though! Good luck and (try to !) change your thinking!