Do guys leave because you're not pretty enough?
I have esteem issues, so I always feel so crushed and helpless because I feel like my fiance left because I wasn't pretty enough for him. I'm so afriad that other guys will leave as well because there will always be thousands of girls who are waaaaaaay more beautiful than me that they can score.
Even though my ex has told me countless times that I'm very beautiful to him inside and out (my nickname was "beautiful") I still become sad because I feel like he's finally realized that I'm not all that beautiful and there are women out there that he can easily score who are waaaay prettier than me.
24 Answers to "Do guys leave because you're not pretty enough?"
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More likely they would leave because of your insecurity. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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They probably leave because your insecurities create closeness issues, or makes them feel like they can't make you happy. I've been down that road more than twice.
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Shallow ****** might, but real guys would not, no.
This seems to be much more about you, than any 'guy ' behavior though! Good luck and (try to !) change your thinking!Like (1)
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did he say why he left you? Well I just found out my boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me so..... I feel exactly like you do, except maybe worse
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Posted by oobiedoobie Feb 10th, 2013 at 9:12PM
Guy here. Never left a girl because she wasn't pretty / pretty enough. Left relationships because she was consistently rude/disrespectful, or cheated, or told me that I wasn't up to her standards (these preferred the ex-con-wannabe-gangsta-always-unemployed type). You develop a relationship because there is some mutual attraction as well as a friendship so basically both of you know what you are getting into before the nudity starts.
Also remember- Honey boo boo's mother has a boyfriend. Think about it.
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Reply by judiy Feb 10th, 2013 at 9:45PM
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