hmmm i think you also need to ask/answer the sam question but change husbands to wives.... unless th person is a complete jackass, the avrage person male or female doesnt set out to annoy anyone or purposely plan to ruin anyone's day, they just do thinkgs with out thinking of either the effect it will have on others, or of the end results. However, if by chance lucky you, have managed to end up with a person who does purposely annoy you or st out to ruin your day, the better question would be: WHY do you lt them? People dont control your mood - you do. by letting his actions effect you, that gives him control of you. One can ( although hard to do ) simply blow off what another person does & say " i am not going to lt them ruin my day"....<br />
Another question: Do you ever communicate with the hubby & let him know how his actions effect you ? If he dont know about things bothering you he cant change.<br />
Finally, if you have told him, and by chance he IS one of those ******** that do infact enjoys annoying you or ruining your day, the other question you might wanna be asking self is :" why stay with someone like that?"
it's an artform.....honed by years of experience.....nothing personal....if it has tires or testicles, it can give ya trouble.....
That's funny. A former coworker of mine always used to say that if it's got t!ts or tires, it'll always give you trouble.
see..we both have our flaws...
to ruin my day