By all means! Forgive her, because he desired your wife doesn't mean he is no longer your friend! As for her, maybe a curiosity she couldn't<br />
deny? A true man would forgive his woman?
A true man isn't stupid and doesn't forgive everything little thing.
I think you should just leave her.
That might be wisest remark I ever read? Thank you, this girl doesn't have a CLUE!
Sure you did gramps.
Dude just leave her.
I have a slightly different view as this sort of thing turns me on and reading the comments I hope you and your wife are happy with her being allowed to enjoy others. I have to say it is a fantasy of mine and I would love ot see my wife in that position. and no question of forgiving for me just more encouragement.
How much did it excite you? You probably felt intense anger, jealousy as well as intense arousal.
I'm sure you did...I have felt the same way.
I am so sorry for you and your relationship. Trust is so difficult for regain. That must be rough reliving that all these years. Only you (and she) can answer that forgiveness question. To me though, it seems like you have at least in part if you 2 are still together.
It's up to you.