Do i help my husband get out of jail even though he's there for hurting me?
109 Answers to "Do i help my husband get out of jail even though he's there for hurting me?"
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Leave him in jail, divorce him and find someone that will not hurt you.
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Read the question you just posted and answer it yourself...
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This is the reason that police hate domestic violence calls.
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That's exactly right.Like (1)
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Well i have proven all wrong I didnt help him get out, i moved on to the point that i left the state we were living in and went home to my family and friends....Like (1)
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Why WOULD you help someone who hurt you ? Why wouldn't you value yourself and your safety more ?
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I believe she will take him backLike (1)
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No he'll do it again. See a divorce lawyer post haste.
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If you want to get beaten up again, or possibly killed, then yes, go ahead.
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My opinion on this is no, you should not help him. And further, you should leave him and not give him the opportunity to do it again. Men who are violent toward women seem to never reform, in fact, they often escalate.
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I agree fully. And if you help get him out it shows him he still has control over you. And he will do it again and then once more you will help him get out. What if you have children? You gonna put them through the same sick circle of violence? Leave him there....
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I agree with your suggestion booLike (1)
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**** no...why is this even a question?
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I believe she will take him back
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yeah I do too :/
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Absolutely not, if he did it once he will do it again. Get out why the getting is good. Go to a shelter if you have to. Why would you even ask the question? He hurt you!
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Well that one left me cross eye'd.
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Only you can decide that - if I was you I would be grateful for the peace & the rest!
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Why would you ?
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No, you dumb ***, no
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Shes not a dumb *** many women ask this question on a daily basis. It isn't as simple and you seem to think it is.
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Its very simple, I dealt with the exact same thing a few years ago. So go take a butthurt pill
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Please don't, he will never learn or change, he's playing on your vulnerability. Talk to someone. I promise you he will hurt you again and this is domestic violence. You're only rewarding his behaviour if you do, and will make you more unsafe. I work in this area and believe me, it can get much worse for you.
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before you do that .. just remember why he was put in there in the first place !
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no.
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no
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Absolutely NOT!!! You're enabling his behavior, you're contributing to the cycle of abuse.
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Let the piece of **** rot if he gets away with it once
He will do it again.Like (2)
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Hell no! If he is there for hurting you let him think about it.
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by rlynnd32 Jan 27th, 2013 at 11:39PM
what we need to realize is that our opinions or reactions to situations aren't a universal response or requirement. your strength is simply that...yours. her husband has abused her and we verbally attack her commitment. isn't that the pot calling the kettle black? demeaning an emotionally handicapped person for exhibiting unconditional love, is just as horrific as the initial facilitator of her pain. so, are we trying to finish the job he started? back off people and show some compassion for this woman and the obvious detriment she is going through. if you can't express sympathy and wisdom to help guide her through her struggle, do what so many of us have perfected...ignore it and leave her to her own devices, trust me...she'd be better off. listening to the taunts and derogatory statements about her character might send her over the edge and i for one wouldn't want that on my conscious. she asks for help and this is what she gets...you guys should be ashamed of yourselves.
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Reply by newenglandmom69 Feb 11th, 2013 at 7:28PM
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