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newenglandmom69 newenglandmom69 41-45, F 126 Answers Jan 27, 2013 in Struggles

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Leave him in jail, divorce him and find someone that will not hurt you.

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Read the question you just posted and answer it yourself...

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This is the reason that police hate domestic violence calls.

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That's exactly right.

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Well i have proven all wrong I didnt help him get out, i moved on to the point that i left the state we were living in and went home to my family and friends....

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Why WOULD you help someone who hurt you ? Why wouldn't you value yourself and your safety more ?

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I believe she will take him back

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Sadly, you're probably correct.

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hahaha....you were so wrong i moved home 1400 miles away and left him in jail

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I'm so glad !!! Very, very good---I wish you nothing but joy and happiness from here on. You deserve it. ;)

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No he'll do it again. See a divorce lawyer post haste.

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If you want to get beaten up again, or possibly killed, then yes, go ahead.

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My opinion on this is no, you should not help him. And further, you should leave him and not give him the opportunity to do it again. Men who are violent toward women seem to never reform, in fact, they often escalate.

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I agree fully. And if you help get him out it shows him he still has control over you. And he will do it again and then once more you will help him get out. What if you have children? You gonna put them through the same sick circle of violence? Leave him there....

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I agree with your suggestion boo

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**** no...why is this even a question?

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I believe she will take him back

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yeah I do too :/

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Absolutely not, if he did it once he will do it again. Get out why the getting is good. Go to a shelter if you have to. Why would you even ask the question? He hurt you!

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Only you can decide that - if I was you I would be grateful for the peace & the rest!

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Why would you ?

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No, you dumb ***, no

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Shes not a dumb *** many women ask this question on a daily basis. It isn't as simple and you seem to think it is.

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Its very simple, I dealt with the exact same thing a few years ago. So go take a butthurt pill

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I have also dealt with this. And although I got out many people never do. And it is hard for me to believe that someone who has gone through this would be so...un-understanding of the situation.

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Or even go to the extent of calling names. Obviously the emotionally abusive chain has extended...pity.

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I do understand, some people just need a mean answer to get **** inti their heads

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And some people need at least one person on their side. I can see we may not agree on this. And thats what sites like this are for. To get all the sides covered and answered. :)

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Eh. I guess you're right.

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Please don't, he will never learn or change, he's playing on your vulnerability. Talk to someone. I promise you he will hurt you again and this is domestic violence. You're only rewarding his behaviour if you do, and will make you more unsafe. I work in this area and believe me, it can get much worse for you.

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before you do that .. just remember why he was put in there in the first place !

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no.

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no

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Absolutely NOT!!! You're enabling his behavior, you're contributing to the cycle of abuse.

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Let the piece of **** rot if he gets away with it once<br />
He will do it again.

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Hell no! If he is there for hurting you let him think about it.

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Let him be there...He needs to learn his lesson

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