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Doxiheart Doxiheart 46-50, F 14 Answers Oct 30, 2012 in Affairs

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True... Sorry to hear about that. Get yourself checked out.

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Never had them, thank goodness, but I believe it's a lifelong thing. Once you have caught the virus it could recur at any time, even after 50 years. I believe that being rundown or stressed, eating or sleeping or sleeping poorly can bring on a new outbreak. (Anything that knocks down your immune system.) There is a very good chance your husband is telling the truth. He may well have caught it long before he met you.

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I've read different things. If you get them again after 2 years, it's a different virus strain and therefore a new exposure. So confused.

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The thought is bound to cross your mind ,and it is possible for them to lay dormant for a long time BUT he should have told you , in fact he should be obligated to . Genital Warts I think are contagious .

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Very contagious. He said they were removed about 2 years before we met. We've been together 7 years.....as far as I am concerned its a lie and I feel betrayed. Plus he has put me at risk!

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yes thats dishonesty Praying for you lots

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wtf How did you not know he had them before Did you get checked out ? Wow this is crazy srry

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He never told me. Have not been checked out yet.

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yes, they do reoccur. Also, they may be one of those that you actually can get from toilet seat or rather some sort of non intimate, non human contact because they are a spore . ..< i think ^. Other than the warts, was there any other behavior that struck you as strange or at least out of the norm?

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They can reoccur at anytime if the virus is lying dormant, just like herpes / coldsores, I wouldnt worry, but he should get them treated to stop the spread to you

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Find out the doctor that treated him and confirm it. It will be on record if he knew he had them and that they can reoccur- he's been seen by somebody.

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Privacy laws....wish I could do that

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Don't go behind his back to do it... make HIM do it, or at the very least, provide you with the information (doctors name) and signatures you need to get it.. small price for him to clear his name.

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Mind you, this is a double edged sword. Either you throw his *** away for cheating OR... you find out he had it all along and did NOT TELL YOU. Keep cool, keep calm... when if he proves to you he DID have it all that time- CHOKE HIM TO DEATH slowly-- or toss him aside like he is nothing for cheating. Either way, the guy is a loser.

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Possible, but not probable.<br />
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Has he displayed any warning signs of cheating?

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Yes.....it's been a tough year. He reconnected with a former love supposedly just online. I found about after about 5 months. He insists nothing happened but he broke my heart. We stopped being intimate until this month which is when I discovered the wart. Very private and changed behaviors, but when asked he denies it all. Am I nuts?

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The simplest answer is usually the correct one. It's very suspicious that the std just happened to coincide with his "online" affair. There are plenty of cheaters out there that will deny til they die.

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Just put up a question - how do I know you're unfaithful, let me count the ways. Maybe you'll get your answer there.

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