I'm married and I love it, I love it because it turns me on as well as him, I feel good because I know I am pleasing him and because I know whatever I give will be returned three fold :o)
I love to. But my girl friend hates to give her husband oral which was enormously frustrating for him. So she gave him permission to get it elsewhere, as long as it was from another guy. He wasn't thrilled with the idea, but got frustrated enough to try it (he used CL of course). Big surprise--there are tons of guys who were interested, no reciprocation wanted!. He could be very choosy and has a stable of 5 guys--all say they are straight, all married, in great physical shape, and according to him generally nice guys.
5 guys, all str8 & all married, who want to give blow jobs to other men?! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Women are so clueless! Those guys are CLOSET GAY or BISEXUAL and
their women don't know how or don't care to please them.
High-libido women usually love it. Others, it's dicey.
How would you describe those *******? Do they happen in your genitals or in your face itself?
My wife doesnt like it, or at least has to be asked and I am very shy about it. It makes me crazy mentally and I am quite content in all other areas. 25 years married. She will do a little if asked, but doesnt finish, and thinks she has really done something special. I feel deprived. I feel even worse for not complaining, but I bring it up every few years that it would mean a lot. How do I discuss this? what if she really does hate it. Am I being TOO considerate? Would love to have married women's perspective only please.
I think a big difference between women who love it and women who don't is that women who love it feel they're damn good at it. So if you ever get another chance, do be generous with the positive feedback.
Yeah it happened in many cases...
My wife hates it.
While my wife really enjoys receiving, it is clear that she prefers not to have to reciprocate. She will try to get by with a hand job. While she is getting better at those... its just not the same. Then there is 69 which she likes even less...
Obviously there is a divorce in your future, friend.
If she loves "taking" but doesn't like "giving", (even to
her husband of all people), the woman is a goocher.
I have been with my wife for 25 years and I can tell you overtime the blow jobs have decreased. I can also tell you that the amount of Oral sex she gets has greatly increased as well her ****** have increased adn intesnifed. I seldom get a ******* for the hell of it, and the last time that she gave me one with out me asking for one and for her to swallow it has been quite a while. But I love her and enjoy giving her pleasure and I know that i can make her *** and know how much she enjoys that. <br />
Most of my guy freinds that are married do not get them either, a coupple have said why did she suck my **** before we were married and had kids and she will not go near it now. so enjoy it when they are young and eager to suck ****, get it all you can, or maybe they only suck so many and when they hit that number they are done? not sure
Bona fide evidence of why I like being gay. BJs are treasured
by gay men, and the giving is just as much fun as the getting!
Agree. Wedding cake is the end of oral sex.
That's why the bride smiles so big walking back down the isle..........she knows she gave her last blow job.
No! Some people like it and some don't.
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My wife stopped giving oral once we were married, which is what led me to finding someone else who would go down
I'm not sure that married has everything to do with it... Maybe how long a couple has been together. I prob gave him more before we were married... But that was before we were regularly having sex...<br />
But I still enjoy giving.. I like to please my man.. Been together 20 years.. But I don't finish him off that way usually... I don't know how much that matters.. I will start him off that way... And/or in between... But I like a good puszy **** ;)