I can be very observant.....I just dont always acknowledge it or comment on it even though I do notice.
i noticed your hair is pink..
You have a good question, but it also refers to the opposite gender. As a male doing the home duties, the female also ignores the little things one does during the day and only looks for the big thing that have not been done. <br />
It takes time for both genders to see the little things one does. They may not say anything, but one knows when they have noticed.
Just the new food that's in the fridge
Talking about others 'efforts, some women don't , anyone raised as the master of the house is oblivious of 'details'.
I do because, oftentimes, it's the many small things that matter as a whole : -)<br />
(No ... I'm not saying it just 'because' it sounds nice and flowery'; I am saying it as I believe it to be for me)<br />
Some things more than others
Some men do.
Oddlye hit it right on the nose. We may notice, but we probably won't discuss the matter, especially if it's something we don't like.
i would say the right man does... but there are very few who actually care...
They just look down. Ahahahaha. yeah. Some do. Who pay close attention.
I think I do but most of the time have no idea how to respond so I end up ignoring them
I find that many do notice certain little things.<br />
Like my dad would only wear button up shirts, and each one had to have two pockets. But he didn't care or particularly notice if the shirt happened to have large holes in it. And more than once, he accidentally went to work in his bedroom slippers. He couldn't have cared less about home decor or how fancy a meal was or whether my mom had a new hairstyle. <br />
My husband was ticky about certain things....the way his socks were folded, whether a certain duck decoy had been moved, and whether anyone had smoked in his patrol car. But he didn't care at all that I was recovering from a c-section, or that his son had a diaper that was about to explode, or that our toddler had entangled himself in his stroller strapping. At least not til I brought those to his attention. I guess that to him, those were little things. But he was a stickler for things like police protocol or how clean he kept his gun. <br />
I think that there are men who are attuned to details, but there are those who have a sort of selective attention. That's one reason why some women have to nag about certain "little things". There are also men who are very focused on whatever it is that they are doing at the time, and little things become just so much "fluff" around them. <br />
There are women with selective attention too though. LIke my aunt, who had mice running around the room while she and I would talk. I don't think she even saw them. lol
OF course they do--the best of things arrive in small packages ? lol why didnt Snow White find the worlds best 7 Wonders came in small fr<x>ames ? lolll
only if you look very closely.
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Some of us do ---