It's probably because so many women put a lot of emphasis on finding a guy who has the "right" job and can provide for them. Many women just flat out say they want a sugar daddy. But there are a few women out there that really do want love above all else, and if anybody finds one, tell her I'm waiting. :P
One of the first questions for a guy from a potential mate.. "What do you do? What job do you have?"
Ask yourself this
How many Rich/Powerful Men have ugly Girlfriends/Wives?
Yes, and for proof a recent survey said that 66% of women would not marry their boyfriend if he was unemployed.
you guys make yourselves into gold diggers and we will take you as such.
Not all guys think like that...You yourself are generalising things so maybe you attract men who think that all women want money
Well, I could use a dude with money right now. Someone to sponsor me in my endeavors. But I am not really shallow. I never really ask or beg for things. That would be rude. I find it though, that guys in general are shallow these days themselves. I find there are no gentlemen out there today anymore. Just tell him you appreciate it and tell him you love him and all the money in the world wouldn't change that. Be positive
a lot of woman, ladys, ect,, do want just your money and everthing you have. But there is alot that do want your love too.. Don't put yourself in that catigory.
Most women these days do need a spouse that is well settled and earning a handsome salary or doing a great and stable turnover. In this case love & nature take a back seat. So rich + powerful + handsome + gud nature is first choice prioritywise.
Your statement/question is also a generalization.
It is inevitable and natural to generalize regardless if it is wrong or not morally,
and regardless as to whether it fits a majority of a percentage or not.
If it is a majority in their head. Then they will most probably generalize, even if it's just sub consciously.
As for the money... some are gold diggers... some value money too much.
Some act like they don't care... but they really do. And some really don't care at all about money but not many it seems.
Can't really blame the guy, he's trying to play the nice card, a card that many other women demand and complain when the man doesn't fit these standards.
Cut him some slack.