Narcissists are living in their own stagnant bubble, and are too far blind in their own ego trip to realize the negative drama they cause. These people lack honesty and integrity in their lives, so it makes them feel better to take a shortcut to the "good life". Karma finds them eventually.
You so right I only wish Karma would find them ALOT sooner as many suffer at their hands. I feel bad even thinking this but hearing about them brings out feeling I never knew I was capable of.
I know how you feel. there are a few people I know that are like this and are very annoying.
A narcissistic is a master at playing head games,they know what they are doing, they want you to believe they don't know what they are doing. They don't have "Empathy" for no human beings,so they don't feel,they are like "Stone". The reason why they keep up drama is this is the only way they know they are alive,but a normal person suffer from their drama. If you're with a narcissistic,you better run like hell!
Yes x 2. Their utter self-absorption places them at the centre of a universe where they are beyond reproach and incapable of error. They lack any self- awareness or empathy.
Ummmmm: A narcissist believes that everything is about them. So "others" would never figure into the equation
Sounds like you're describing anyone with a controlling personality, not just narcissists. Controllers always blame others.
They tell it exactly how they see it. It's how they see it that's the problem. :-/
Given the question am not surprised the poster is a young women who doesnt understand the origin of the word - the myth of Narcissus.<br />
What has this physical self love got to do with blaming other people and what school did you learn classics in?<br />
Am not sure what you are mixing up because you dont seem to know - perhaps you mean a drama queen? Or just any woman?<br />
I.e. histrionics personality disorder - <br />
seems to be that you are talking about yourself - but in a removed way to make it look like it is hypothetical.<br />
Yes most women - with histrionics also believe themselves wrongly to be stunning and like looking at themselves but the drama and blame bit - this is not implied by narcissism
Firstly the are Selfish and have huge egoes.<br />
Everything is all about them and wheather or not they believe their own lies I don't know and actually don't care. They all need help as they have sick minds and are some of the most cruel people on earth. They manipulate and play emotional and mind games and will stop at nothing to get their own way. Oh they are also cowards and only hurt children, animals and woman but run from anyone stronger. Sorry this is so long but I know 2 and this subject is my pet hate.
Well from what I know, they want hell need you to believe their interpretation of life and events that happen. They have their point of view, excuses for why they behaved a certain way and it is all your fault for not following the party line.
Believe me I HEAR YOU ON THIS. I know believe me I know. It is like this is the truth, it is obvious, but they will just have a different version of it, and for them I guess it is very real. They don't like to feel bad about themselves from my experience, so they twist stuff around to make it fit what they want everyone to BELIEVE. If we believe it, that makes it real.
OH YES, spreading it is key. Think PR, how they believe people see them is like their life blood. That they have to control. They don't handle rejection well either, tends to set them off. I had one female friend who I said no to once, that woman played out in my life you would not believe. Her only regret is it potentially showed her up to be the bit@h she truly is. So she twisted and twisted the truth so it appears she did it all to help ME!! Her own life was not going so well, so instead of addressing that, she decided to "fix" my life so she could appear the hero !! All cos one day I said NO haha. Not in my life now.
I'm not sure you understand the meaning of narcissist.
Because a narcissist doesn't necessarily blame others for the drama they cause. A narcissist is a self absorbed person that loves themselves. This person that you are thinking of may be a narcissist, but that isn't what you are complaining about.
Blameshifting is not part of narcissism.
Show me then.
I love your hahaha's and calling me hun in your attempt to sound like an authority. Just show me.
3 examples. I posted earlier, but I guess it didn't go through. I just ask for one in return.
Okay. You found an example. I commend you for looking, but your reference is a weblog of some individual whereas the references I provided are a bit more credible. I still believe that it isn't necessarily narcissism that is the root problem here but rather a problem with accepting any responsibility for ones actions and shifting blame. This problem compounded by their narcissism is probably makes the person seem unbearable. Are narcissists delusional? I'm sure some are, but I can't believe that they all are.
I did google it, just as you have. While the sources that you have provided are great, they still don't mention blame shifting in them if you want to get nit picking. They do however mention a bunch of other things though.
I still think you are using the term narcissist a little too liberally and encompassing behavior that is more than just narcissism.
I think your updated question better captures what it is that you are really asking. My thought on your updated question is I highly doubt it. They are narcissistic not delusional.