We're judged every time we make ourselves visible to others. It's like painting a target on yourself with a sign that says "Shoot Here"! (Don't let it get to you.)
Agreed, judging others is normal and happens. It shouldn't be a bad thing as everyone has a right to opinion and to voice them. I find it interesting to read and talk to others.
Depends if it is really complicated or not. They may think by overcomplicating
the thing thaat they will somehow get the anser they want.
Or, is this a test. Or is it just pendantic behavior.