Actually I think we kind of do. It's really our own expectations that don't get met when our heart is broken... If we did not have those set up in the first place I don't think our hearts would break.
i think some do
Alot of times we are responsible for our pain
Insecurity will destroy us.
There's nothing more triggering than your own mind.
it can happen
if they love but refuse to let it happen
they can hurt themselves and actually convince themselves they were right about things going wrong