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Do women give importance to guys being a virgin when getting into a relationship ?

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    SpiritOfTheRabbit - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by SpiritOfTheRabbit 1 May 2nd, 2012 at 3:57AM

    I have been with a virgin. I found it incredibly touching to share his first experience with him. I don't think any less or more of it other than that.

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  1. 3grnowl - 26-30 years old

    Posted by 3grnowl May 2nd, 2012 at 3:59AM

    I had been in an encounter where there was a possibility of sexual relations, and the man was a virgin. I couldn't go through with it, I felt terrible about it, but I thought he deserved to have his first time with someone special, and not with a just an intoxicated friend. I don't know if I could have a relationship with a virgin because I would feel like we were at two different levels, and maybe had different morals, seeing as he would be in my age range and have abstained for that long.

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  2. RobynTheBeautiful - 41-45 years old

    Reply by RobynTheBeautiful May 2nd, 2012 at 4:30AM

    Dont assume that being a virgin at your 'age' he is made that choice to abstained, there is a thing called being shy as well and that puts one behind the 8 ball from the get go.

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  3. 3grnowl - 26-30 years old

    Reply by 3grnowl May 2nd, 2012 at 4:32AM

    I understand, I didn't mean it to sound like an assumption, I just had that one guy in my head when writing this. But if he was shy, or any other reason, I still believe it wouldn't work out. Not that I do not appreciate him as a person, but I have never been attracted to shy people before.

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  4. blehtolife - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by blehtolife May 11th, 2012 at 11:25AM

    only if sex is a huge priority for them - they would hate the idea of "waiting" for the relationship to grow, but may also feel guilty if they didn't & like they "took advantage" of the guy.
    i wouldn't give it importance...in fact, i may even look up to him for it - most guys are sex-crazed. but then again, if it did get serious & you were his only, i'd wonder if he'd get curious about what it's like to be with another girl...
    i dunno, i think i'd rather date a guy who has been with at least 1 or more girls (7 is my limit though - i don't want a guy who's dirty).

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  5. coloradosugar - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by coloradosugar May 3rd, 2012 at 8:08AM

    I wouldn't want to be his first experience I don't think unless he really loved me. He should be with someone he loved for that. Plus...I don't have the time or the patience to teach.;)

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  6. samanthawriter - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by samanthawriter May 2nd, 2012 at 9:13AM

    Only in the sense that once I was out of high school, I think if I were to have begun dating a guy and discovered he was a virgin, I might have wondered if I wanted to go on seeing somebody who could have such a different outlook than I did. (Please note that sentence was in the subjunctive mood -- "if I were to have" -- because I never dated any one past high school age who was a virgin... and by "dated" I mean had sex with.)

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  7. RobynTheBeautiful - 41-45 years old

    Posted by RobynTheBeautiful May 2nd, 2012 at 4:34AM

    I feel that only some woman would want to help a virgin to be a man.
    Most want men to be a man, one who has plenty of experience to make them feel like a woman.
    A bit of a one way street in my opinion.

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  8. blehtolife - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by blehtolife May 11th, 2012 at 11:23AM

    whether a guy has had sex or not doesn't make him a 'man' - it takes a heck of a lot omore than that.

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  9. RobynTheBeautiful - 41-45 years old

    Reply by RobynTheBeautiful May 11th, 2012 at 12:37PM

    Correct me if I am wrong, it seems to me that there are a hell of a lot of females who dont consider themselves a woman until she is taken by a man through having sex for first time or reminded whats its like to be a woman for the 1000th time. I live on both sides of the fence, trust me. when I have dressed as a woman with other females I have lost count on what females have said about men that they would never ever say in front of a 'man'. it seems I am not a man in their eyes and can talk like that in front of me. I have never ever heard a guy say that no woman has made him feel like a man from a boy when I am in male mode and we all know that talk is different between females and males then with their own sexes. I still think its a one way street. Most Woman dont want to turn a boy into a man no matter how much they like about him and yet woman wont a man to make them feel like a woman at all times. What I am talking about is most woman want the male to make the frist move. A one way street.

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  10. Honeywest - 70+ years old - female

    Posted by Honeywest May 2nd, 2012 at 4:06AM

    That depends on the person. I look more at what is in their heart.

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  11. sexysaand - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by sexysaand May 2nd, 2012 at 4:02AM

    yes 90 percent in india

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  12. unnutty - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by unnutty May 2nd, 2012 at 4:02AM

    doesn't really matter if he's still good at doing it :P

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  13. turtlesplash - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by turtlesplash May 2nd, 2012 at 4:00AM

    not that many

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  14. Gemzaayy - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Gemzaayy May 2nd, 2012 at 3:59AM

    My partner wasnt and nor was I but I wouldnt want a manwhore.

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