That's cold dude ...<br />
I like it ;)
cough* women an men both make that mistake over and over.
omg don't make me start ep-linking!
I sure do!<br />
Or people that complain about all the physco they've dated etc.<br />
As soon as a man mentions his "physco ex" or "***** ex" etc...I seriously have to reconsider him, afyer all, they did choose to have a relationship with this person.
That's a good point.
I don't think so because I know a lovely lady who was widowed & her husband that died was awesome. Since he died she had dated several loosers. There is definately nothing looser about this lady but something must have changed in the vibe she gives off etc because she has discussed this with friends & none of us can pin point why such a nice person attracts such rotten men.
It's an ugly little law of nature: Bad people, predatory types, are attracted to vulnerable people, the emotionally needy, the lonely, the unstable, people going through tough times or difficult transitions or very inexperienced naive people. What often happens to inexperienced young women is that they have an unhappy experience with a man and afterwards they feel sad, hurt, angry, confused, and generally wounded. But they don't give themselves a real chance to pull their lives together and develop some strength; they just cave in to finding a new relationship. Because they are hurting, the predators find them. And then they wind up hurting even worse and more predators crawl out of the woodwork and sniff them out. They become addicted to this because they are constantly hurting.
I think you hit the nail on the head there. This theory has come up in conversation with my widowed friend with the awesome husband that died. I think it might have been the saddness in her vibe/ demeanor that the loosers are picking up on. Theyr'e like sharks
I would NEVER whine about dating a Loser....I would Brag about him, then stand back and wait for someone else to stuck with the loser and I would celebrate!!!
You attract what you think about most of the time. When you are focused on what you DO NOT want you will bring that into your life. When you focus on all of the things you DO Want and good qualities you desire in a relationship, you will bring that into your life. The best thing to do is look at the best in EVERYTHING EVERYDAY. That way you only attract more of the things you do want and like...
i doubt they think that, but it's probably the case about half the time.
Guys Do The Same... And Nope People Are Generally Attracted To Their Opposites, The Ones Who Have The Characteristic They Wish To See In Themselves. But I Do Think That Many Women Settle For A Guy That's Not Half The Men They Deserve Simply Cause Their Afraid Of Getting Hurt And/Or They Don't Think They Can Do Better And Same Thing Goes To Guys.