Do you actually think the "SIZE" of a man really affects the performance in bed?

Personally, I don't. But I'm told I'm wrong every time this question is asked here so I should stop answering. I still say it's about knowing how to use what he has. Women want a man with exceptional skills, regardless of size. Well, at least this woman. Maybe I'm abnormal.

Yes...midgets don't jump as high and can't touch the bed with their feet from the swing.

of course it does. To small and you can't feel it. Too big and it hurts.
A man has to have other techniques as well. But a nice package helps.

I dont think it effects it at all. At least not to me. Ive not had a problem with smaller penis's. Its all about how well you are in bed.

YES.....I mean NO! :D

Everyone has their preference as to what size feels better; while a vagina is extremely accommodating, not every woman is the same size inside. Factor in the millions of nerves, muscle tone, and personal pref. and you're left with countless combinations for pleasure (or not).

Once you've seen a penis that is about 2 inches, you will definitely know that it CAN affect his performance.. doesnt mean he doesnt have any other skills though

one size fits all.

no, it's their imagination...and the way they use their tools and by that i mean hands, tongue...

Well i have heard that im great in the "sack" from multiple different sources and i think im around average size so i dont think size has anything to do with it, actually i wonder what the average size is, hmmm i feel a question coming on

I would not have the slightest idea,.or ever want to find out..If i was a woman,.i would be lesbian for sure..All i know is,if i never saw this question,..it would never actually occur to me..its probly a quality thing..

No. Big or small you have to love them all! There is much more than that! It depends on how good they are with other parts of their bodies also, hands, mouth, tongue, you catch my drift!

it adds to the pleasure and make some moves/positions possible.
size only is a nice surprise continued with bitter disappointment.
nice technique, knowledge of woman body AND size, makes it best.

no ah ok no

I haven't been with many men in my life. My x was big. My new guy is smaller. But oh my god.....The way he uses it and the way he kisses. It brings a smile to my face even now.

I don't think its about size it's how you feel about him and they way he feel about you that makes everything

Performance? No - not really. There's a lot more to a man's technique than just his size.

However, in my experience, it can definitely affect his confidence - and the huge variety of answers you'd get for a question like this only adds to the confusion and insecurity in a lot of men. Once a man has been told by someone (rightly or wrongly) that he is "small", it seems to linger in his psyche for a long time - and that uncertainty causes a lot more difficulties than his size ever would.

Small packages do NOT have to equate to bad technique or less satisfaction. Just as men come in different sizes, so do women. Find a partner who fits you right, and then cherish them (and BELIEVE them) when they tell you how good you make them feel.

And as for all those men and women out there who have ever pointed and giggled: leave the little guys alone! They can be AWESOME if you give them a chance! :)

I spent a couple months after the bar in bed with a guy with a very very very small penis. He made up for in many other ways, and satisfied me. But when it came down to it, it did make a difference.
He was very self-conscious about it, and his lack of confidence killed the sex for us more than anything else.

No only if he lets it