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Do you agree that saying 'I love you' to someone when you don't mean is one of the worst kinds of deception?

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Asked By: tak1 36-40, M  6 months ago

Having somebody believe that someone is in love with them - as a result of being told enough times - the person claiming that love isn't genuine is being led towards heartbreak? I think anyone who does that isn't worth the dirt under my boots. Do you agree?

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  1. pixelbest - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by pixelbest Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:09PM

    Not really, there are worse. SAYING I love you means nothing, it is how that person treats you that counts. It is not what people say, but what they do that counts. And it is the things they do, that hurt the most.

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  2. tak1 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by tak1 Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:13PM

    I mean for someone to allow another to believe, from what they have said, that they have fallen in love with them. Not just saying 'I love you' but claiming that they are head over heels for them when they are not.

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  3. pixelbest - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by pixelbest Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:18PM

    Deception full stop is horrid. Add betrayal and that kicks you in the guts. Love lost hurts, but that I find easier to deal with than betrayal. But I guess that comes under actions as well. Been betrayed by my husband (his cheating) a female friend who acted out in my life so bad, still recovering. And at work. Those hurt far more than someone just falling out of love with me.

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  4. SixStringRomance - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by SixStringRomance Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:03PM

    It is THE worst.

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  5. tak1 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by tak1 Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:05PM

    Absolutely! :)

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  6. fragments - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by fragments Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:10PM

    Yes, it's the worst

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  7. aces4battle - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by aces4battle Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:10PM

    All human need to hear someone say it, even if its a lie. Action to the love is more revealing than the words I love you.

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  8. aquarius3 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by aquarius3 Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:09PM

    yes I agree

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  9. emmatk - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by emmatk Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:07PM

    Of course, that saying is thrown around way to easily nowadays.

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  10. tak1 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by tak1 Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:10PM

    Agreed. I only tell someone I love them if I love them, that's it. But for someone to specifically say that they are IN love with you when they are not, I think, is THE most cruel and callous thing a human being could do.

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  11. emmatk - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by emmatk Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:13PM

    I approve of this message!

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  12. stephaniebis - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by stephaniebis Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:06PM

    Maybe they did mean it - and are deceiving themselves as well.

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  13. Indie42 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Indie42 Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:05PM

    Yep. But I think some people are in love with the concept of love and the feelings it brings, however temporary they might be.

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  14. Babydoll42 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Babydoll42 Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:04PM

    yes....that really sucks

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  15. diddleydee - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by diddleydee Oct 31st, 2012 at 1:32PM

    yes cruel better to be honest and let that person find there real soul mate,instead of wasting there time thinking there loved

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