"allow"?.....nah, more like bribin & blackmail
You know what, Nash, this is never on anyone's radar. People don't even try to take care of me. I am always caring for others. It's even what I do for a living. I am still looking for a soft place to fall. As to allowing it, I don't really ask, no. I don't push people away, though.
i wish...but no
Most of the time, I don't.