no...never believed in love at first sight. wont even believe in love at thousand sights...i just need to talk first to fall in love :P.
yes u can talk....
i appreciate your openly saying knowing the person's attitude one decides.
but sometimes it just happens with no reason as if the person one meets is life.
understanding each other is important.
Not possible to truly love someone if you don't know them well. <br />
First sight is only fist impressions and gut reaction ba<x>sed on our own needs.<br />
Someone young, lonely and horny is very prone to instant lust on sight, and rapid infatuation if chance allows.<br />
Someone who needs to be needed will fall for the needy.<br />
A parent may love their newborn, wrinkly, red, wet, scrawny and screaming because the oxytocin rush floods them with life's lust for procreation and nurturing bonds.<br />
But real love takes time to develop, is softer, quieter and deeper. The feeling is caused by caring for the well-being of one another; arises when you really deeply know him or her and the majority of the time shared is reliably positive.
You are exactly right while currently I can truly say that I am in love it did not happen overnight. I have been involved with men before and have made the mistake of jumping in bed with them after a very short time and could have sworn I was in love but it was just like you said LUST. After years and years I kind of gave up on meeting "THAT GUY" and just became use to being a single mom and just being by myself. I hung around my friend a lot (male friend) we werent interested in one another. We only thought of one another as friends, but in 14 years time we really got to know one another and eventually we fell in love. So you are right it doesnt happen overnite but when you least expect it. BAM! it happens. And let me tell you we have been married 4 years and these have been the best years of my adult life. I love him too death!
No. More like love at first bite. Meow.
Nope, not unless you have the power to see their soul/heart at first sight.<br />
Lust at first sight, however......
I COMPLETELY AGREE...
I believe that when we see someone it is possible to say that they seem to have a good soul because of how they carry theirselves, but to love someone i don't know. Just thought of another question. Now looking at someone and lusting, getting to know them and dating can lead to love. But love at first sight no.
I believe in love at first sight with kittens <3
Yes. I believe in love at first sight. I knew the moment I saw WildSpectrumArts that she was the woman for me. Everything else around her was blurry and she looked like an angel. My heart jumped out of my body like a cartoon character. I had never felt so wonderful. It was like I had been hit and it was so clear that she was THE ONE. I knew I had to talk to her. I am so thankful that I got up the courage to do so. She is the love of my life and I couldn't imagine life without her. I didn't experience that feeling with my first wife.
People who claim at experience love at firs sight have experienced nothing but the pull of physical attraction. Truly loving another person takes time and effort. I would venture to say that those who believe in love at first sight have not experienced true love yet, or they would know the difference between love and lust.
yes, very possible. because first sight does not only include how the person looks like, but also how the person acts in different situations. <br />
No finite amount of dating will promise you, that you know all virtues and flaws of the other person . If you are observant, you can find out how a person work in different situations at first sight. <br />
There will be flaws in that person anyway, which were not obvious in the first impression. But in a finite amount of dating, those flaws will be hidden as well. <br />
AND LOVE IS TO LOOK BEYOND THOSE FLAWS. In the very first sight, you can decide if the positiveness of the person of interest is strong enough to attract you or not.
Depends. Sometimes it feels like you can see into their soul (Looks don't hurt either...) and other times you just want to **** them senseless.
Depends on what you're looking at.
Thats lust not love no matter what you call it !
I am indeed very much of a hopeless romantic but<br />
you don't fall in love with someone from seeing<br />
their appearance, seeing what they physically look like.<br />
You fall in love by seeing who the person is, by seeing<br />
their true self, their habits, their flaws. You fall in love<br />
by seeing someone's heart. <br />
It is a person that you love and their is so much more<br />
to a person than their appearance. After all you<br />
shouldn't "judge a book by it's cover". <br />
Love is something so complex and if you ask someone<br />
who is genuinely in love why they love that person they<br />
will not say because they look good. That is not the<br />
reason for love. And in fact i'm pretty sure their are no<br />
reasons for love because you never really fall in love with<br />
who you would rather fall in love with. And "falling" in love<br />
is a process. You are "falling" and this takes time, time<br />
spent knowing the person. It's not just suddenly BANG<br />
SMACK out of nowhere you hit the ground, you have to<br />
Yeah I do believe, the real love can started at first sight, the feelings can start building and establishing from that 1st look but the more important what will come next!!!! Are you going to safe and grow up those feelings to real love or you are going to give up and make them despair …..
You fall in love with a person, not their appearance, so no I don't. I think love is something that grows over time, it's not something that happens instantly. You need to really get to know someone before you can truly say you love someone.
I believe more in lust at first sight. I feel that in order to love someone you have to have something more than lust in common.
Yes, sorta. I mean, not love at first sight per se, but a feeling that there is potential. Chemistry I guess you'd call it. I prefer to think of it as Nature telling us who is compatible with us at first sight so we know to take a second look.
Infatuation or obsession at first sight, but real love? Probably not.
I not only believe in it, I live it 24/7...30 years now, loved him the minute I laid eyes on him, still do.
to a degree i think. there is someone that captivates you and you want to know more.