Do you believe in unconditional love?
I believe that unconditional love is worthless. I want someone to love me for my virtues, as they have taken effort to craft. Out of this love, they forgive me, accept me, and adore me for my flaws. If they just love me regardless of who i was, that feels pretty cheap. In return, if i fall in love with someone, it will be because i value their strengths above their flaws. This doesn't mean that they must have more strength than flaws. Simply that their strengths are the ones that matter most to me.