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Do you believe it is possible to be in love with more than one person at a time?

I am in love with my husband in one way & still in love with my ex husband in another way......different in a way yes but it's still love

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  1. chrismark61 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by chrismark61 Apr 12th, 2012 at 3:03AM

    I love the mother of my children and there are two of them now, love them both, but the first mother doesnt love me like my current

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  2. gatorgirl013 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by gatorgirl013 Apr 12th, 2012 at 3:08AM

    thank you for replying and understanding :)

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  3. beelzebum - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by beelzebum Apr 12th, 2012 at 3:02AM

    Of course you can, but if you are in a relationship then you should always put that person before any others that you love. I love lots of people, but I made a promise to one, and I don't break my promises.

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  4. gatorgirl013 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by gatorgirl013 Apr 12th, 2012 at 3:07AM

    i agree! and i dont have any intentions on breaking any promises......I hate that I feel this way. I want it to stop!

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  5. AngelOfVampires - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by AngelOfVampires Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:37AM

    It can't be possible, because an ex husband must be someone who hurt and was abusive with you, which can easily make you forget him and never look back. Your present husband, if he is nothing like your ex then he must gain strong love from you and to be faithful because he puts all his trust in you, but if his actions are like your ex, why did you choose the new husband then if he is reminding you of your ex husband?

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  6. gatorgirl013 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by gatorgirl013 Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:46AM

    my husband isn't anything like my ex true & yes my ex was abusive at times. After 12 years of being divorced we finally had closure. He has changed & I forgave but my heart, although not in the same way as my husband, will always love him in a special way. He was my first love & my boys dad. Although we don't agree, I value your opinion.

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  7. PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:33AM

    Nope lol

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  8. humenfish - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by humenfish Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:24AM

    Absolutely. I love, and have loved, several people, and not just in that 'friendly' kind of way, all at the same time. We react to certain people in different ways. It is definitely possible to love more than one at the same time.

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  9. gatorgirl013 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by gatorgirl013 Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:32AM

    I love lots of people. I have a huge heart. That's why I hurt alot I guess but to be in love with my husband & still have deep feelings for my ex has really caused me some grief. I don't like it one bit. I try not to feel that way. I can't help how the heart feels I guess!

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  10. WheelsInMotion - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by WheelsInMotion Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:24AM

    No. You can be REALLY in love with yourself, act totally selfish and use 2 people at the same time. But no, you can't be in love with 2 people, you can only manipulate and most likely hurt one or both or them. Substitute any number for 2, if you're really pushing the envelope

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  11. gatorgirl013 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by gatorgirl013 Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:29AM

    it's not about using anyone or manipulation.....I would never act on it. I guess it's that I have two wonderful boys with this man & many years spent with him good & bad.

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  12. WheelsInMotion - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by WheelsInMotion Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:38AM

    Well then I guess you can be in love with 2 people at the same time. But the next question that needs to be asked is can you ever be truly committed to a person when you're having feelings and are in love with someone else? I always feel like I have to cut off my feelings for ex-girlfriends whenever I find a new girl. What happens if the other person you have feelings for makes a move when you're vulnerable? If you love your ex you're probably not going to be able to say no, and then you have acted on those feelings

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  13. BrokenWithin - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by BrokenWithin Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:23AM

    YES! I Do, I Do, I Do!

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  14. gatorgirl013 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by gatorgirl013 Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:50AM

    thank you thank you thank you! lol

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  15. rockstard - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by rockstard Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:19AM

    yup. i love my parents, my sibling, my dog ,my best friend, my two girlfriends.

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  16. gatorgirl013 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by gatorgirl013 Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:34AM

    made me smile :)

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  17. rockstard - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by rockstard Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:36AM

    oh i forgot, theres alessandra ambrosio too :P

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  18. c1lived666 - 66-70 years old

    Posted by c1lived666 Apr 29th, 2012 at 11:56PM

    We are all in love, to one degree or another, with everyone...even those we hate. Your question, though important as it is, should (as I have learned and experienced) not be "Is it possible to love more than one person..." but rather how do we react or how should we react when we perceive/find ourselves in love (to one degree or another) with one or more people, people who may or may not always be our “friend”? For example: Before and during WWII and, more recently, during the Yugoslav Wars, 1991-1995 & 1998-2001, women and girls were held in long periods of captivity during which time they were continually raped and often impregnated; the upshot was that a reportable number of these female captives later reported that they had “fallen in love”--and some reported that they were still emotionally/cognitively “in love”--with their captors/rapist/torturers.
    Subsequently it is and will be far more important to have knowledge that will assist and provide us the means and ability, male or female, in order to positively cope with situations that involve the often irrational human emotion(s) that we call “Love”.
    Food for thought: In our pre-high school and high school curriculum today most students are educated to the “No Child Left Behind” test standards in the “three R’s” with few or no courses offered (let alone subjects of requirement) in social behavior, personal/emotional relationships that involve living and coping with family, friends, other loved one’s and relationships, or with marriage itself; yet for most of us, our children included, such relationships will be occupy most of our lives. I ask you, what is wrong with this picture?

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  19. May777 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by May777 Apr 28th, 2012 at 5:18PM

    No..........i believe it's just going on ur emotions.....not being inlove with 2 people.

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  20. giayesim12 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by giayesim12 Apr 12th, 2012 at 4:15AM

    I believe it is totally possible it seems I am always in love with at least 2 ppl at the same time which makes for a lot of drama and heartache for the most part but I have accepted this about myself and now control my behavior feelings are one thing action is quite another

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  21. elixabelle - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by elixabelle Apr 12th, 2012 at 4:03AM

    no-one is loved until all are loved equally...everything else is an agreement

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  22. geno77 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by geno77 Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:19AM

    No

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  23. gatorgirl013 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by gatorgirl013 Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:34AM

    I respect your opinion :)

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