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Do you believe "once a cheater always a cheater"?

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    ProvidentialParlance - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by ProvidentialParlance Jul 21st, 2012 at 4:10PM

    No, but if you don't let your shame and guilt over the incident change you into a better person, shame on you.

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14 Answers to "Do you believe "once a cheater always a cheater"?"

  1. devilwife - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by devilwife Jul 22nd, 2012 at 2:13AM

    Yes

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  2. clarkee - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by clarkee Jul 21st, 2012 at 8:52PM

    i think it mostly depends on how difficult it is to change. for some people its easier than others. and some situations less difficult to face up to than others. eventually cheaters all get caught because that is what they want subconsciously. so no i dont believe once a cheater always a cheater but i may feel differently about one person being that way.

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  3. Vries - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Vries Jul 21st, 2012 at 5:02PM

    Yes, I absolutely believe that. But I don't see cheating as a bad thing. I'm a cheater myself and thus I allow other people to cheat on me too. If you expect to be cheated on you'll never be hurt by it.

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  4. InTheMiddle88 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by InTheMiddle88 Jul 21st, 2012 at 4:15PM

    I don't think it always means that the cheater will always cheat. I think it just means that the cheated on will always see the cheater as just that, even if s/he remains faithful afterwards.

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  5. CourtneyJester - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by CourtneyJester Jul 21st, 2012 at 4:14PM

    Yes, they never change. Never to be trusted again.

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  6. Oddandsingular - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Oddandsingular Jul 21st, 2012 at 4:14PM

    If it happens more than once I do. I think people deserve a second chance to get real and face the real problems in the relationship or in their head.

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  7. TheReikoku - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by TheReikoku Jul 21st, 2012 at 4:13PM

    Yupp.

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  8. AngelJackson - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by AngelJackson Jul 21st, 2012 at 4:13PM

    It is very difficult to re-build trust once betrayed. It takes a long time, and even then, may be unsuccessful.

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  9. BennDover - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by BennDover Jul 21st, 2012 at 4:12PM

    No but I don't believe in spending the rest of my life worrying that it might happen again

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  10. memoriesandfeelings - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by memoriesandfeelings Jul 21st, 2012 at 4:11PM

    I think people wont cheat when they find the perosn they truely love, but there is always that nagging doubt because of past actions. So I think they can reform, but they wont unless they chose to.

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  11. Depressed4Life - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Depressed4Life Jul 21st, 2012 at 4:11PM

    I think people can change, but women typically believe it. I am not profiling here, it is my experience. I cheated and it was a long time ago. But unlike most men, i learned from my mistakes. i would never put my relationship in jeopardy ever again.

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  12. 3grnowl - 26-30 years old

    Posted by 3grnowl Jul 21st, 2012 at 4:11PM

    I don't believe every situation is the same, whether it is the circumstances of the relationship or the state of mind. So no, I don't believe that.

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  13. vickieprince - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by vickieprince Jul 21st, 2012 at 4:10PM

    Absolutely

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