no no and no
That would be my mother. <br />
She could have just won the lottery yet she would still ask you to loan her 20 bucks.
I am that person in my family.
Go to hell.
Been on the street. You? I had a fine time. Never wanted for anything. Keep your shame for yourself.
You're a wonderful person. You judge others really well, and you are kind to those less fortunate to you, and you are compassionate and understanding, because you've been through it all, and everyone appreciates that about you. It's nice that you asked this question about bums, so that you could then vent your own self-hatred. Your name says you're a poor speller, but I don't think that makes you stupid or a bad person. Just someone who may have once made a mistake.
So, you bummed from a friend, because your family blackmails you. Well then, you're practically a saint in this regard.
Your friend has paid his/her debt then. If there was a debt. The gift of giving is preceded by the gift of needing.
Nevertheless, your friend repaid the debt. Money isn't everything. Sounds like you should be well aware of that.