When I was young, I never thought of myself as attractive on the outside. I consoled myself by thinking I had a "nice personality.". It took me until my forties (and finally finding the right man.) to learn that I was attractive inside AND out. <br />
It's a way better place to be. <br />
I think it's hard for a lot of us to get to. But you are right, everyone should feel that way.
Physically I rate myself a "C+", personality I think "A++".
I do my best to look and be my best and If a woman happens to be attracted to me, damn thats icing on the cake. :)
Not so bad that you can't stand to look at me, but I smell really good, and that counts for more than most folks realize.
I don't want too end up like a Kardashian.. so I keep my vanity in check
After 80,000 dollars worth of plastic surgery, at least the farmers don't plant me in their corn fields.
Maybe if I cleaned myself up, yes. But I have a bit of a Dorian Grey condition.
I prefer the look I have now.