I've sat on my arse for 15 years... nope. lol
I treat myself to the finer things in life but I earned them and I am super happy.
I don't need material gains to make me happy. As Buddha said, wanting less will make you happier than getting more.
I like the simple things, just fine :) children laughing, field of flowers, sound of crickets, melty-gooey marshmallows, giggle with friends, winks from strangers, beer, cuddles by the fireplace ... endless list of happy possibilities!
Sure, but do I have them... No.
Damn right I do.