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Do you ever wonder if you had of been a better partner the relationship would of lasted? This is how I feel..

I should have been a better woman and truly loved myself and him more

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    JustPlainBarb - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by JustPlainBarb Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:50AM

    That might have made a difference, but it does take 2 people to make or break a relationship in many cases.

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  1. Kream19 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Kream19 Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:53AM

    your also very right

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  2. JustPlainBarb - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by JustPlainBarb Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:58AM

    Thanks for BA. I think you might be too hard on yourself .. but loving yourself is very important ... so I hope you're able to find that in your life. :)

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11 Answers to "Do you ever wonder if you had of been a better partner the relationship would of lasted? This is how I feel.."

  1. vickieprince - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by vickieprince Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:40AM

    I do not...I was good to my abusive husband even after the beatings for 21 years...Nothing I could have done to make it better...Don't beat yourself up sweetie move on and be happy

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  2. Classicality7 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Classicality7 Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:47AM

    Nope. I ended my first marriage, because he had moved from exposing himself in public to "communicating with minors for immoral purposes". In this second marriage, my husband is more crazy about me than ever, unfortunately it took him ten years to realize this and all of my once positive feelings for him have "fled the building".

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  3. sunshinemadz - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by sunshinemadz Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:47AM

    no.. if my ex's r not sex maniac it probably lasted.

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  4. tiki187 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by tiki187 Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:46AM

    Nope. I regret nothing.

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  5. PastPilot - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by PastPilot Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:46AM

    We should regret our mistakes and learn from them, but we should never take them with us into the future.

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  6. originnone - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by originnone Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:44AM

    Don't get down on yourself. Mistakes happen in relationships whenever you get close.

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  7. NoodlePan - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by NoodlePan Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:41AM

    I wonder this everyday with all my relationships. But I've woke the **** up and I'll be doing it right the next time.....

    next time...

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  8. WizGeezer - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by WizGeezer Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:41AM

    It's natural to over-analyze and retrace our every misstep of failed relationships. So think about it and learn for the next romantic encounter.

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  9. Kream19 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Kream19 Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:50AM

    your right

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  10. MrNash - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by MrNash Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:41AM

    Awww now now ladies...Don`t blame yourselves. Real love always stays and never leaves.

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  11. Kream19 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Kream19 Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:56AM

    true!!

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  12. SpiritOfTheRabbit - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by SpiritOfTheRabbit Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:40AM

    I feel like if I didn't have so many insecurities, some of my relationships would have lasted much longer.

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