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serendipity89 serendipity89 22-25, F 18 Answers Nov 8, 2012 in Dating & Relationships

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I know the difference between missing her and the idea of missing her, and it is more than just a whisper in the darkness

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All the time

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I think about this all the time. Then I run into whoever it is I was missing, and realize it's really just the idea of what they could've been that I miss.

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no.. i really miss who i miss!

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What's the difference? Isn't all "reality" our IDEA of it?

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What I'm getting at I guess, is if you were to miss them then they couldn't be replaced, you get a new "idea"

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What I'm getting at, is that it's all an "idea" whether you miss them or not. One reality is as valid as the next.

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ummmm.. good one

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It's prolly human nature to crave the "idea" of a special someone, having your heart-broken by a special someone, just compounds the misery and makes things even worse...by having a definitive "face" to picture, while being viciously bitten in the butt of you heart-strings!!!!

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Yes.

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It's easy to form an ideal in one's heart. In absence, the ideal can supercede the reality. Similar to when you get nostalgic about a time in your life -- where your memory has sanitized the bad parts of the situation.

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I don't know about missing, but I'm always attracted to the idea.

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Find a way too separate the 2.. and you win a gold contract

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the idea of someone I like ashley but not that much because her current bf is a chudloving piece of fecal matter and just thinkiing about kissing her now makes me wanna vomit

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I miss the opportunity to get laid and lay next to a warm body... so not really the person or the idea of them, but just the physical stuff. I was really attracted to my ex. hah... there is nothing really profound about that.

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