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I haven't dated for 4 years because my ex boyfriends left me very broken and trusting again is difficult for me. I've tried very hard to move on. I went to college and volunteered, reading, listening to music etc to stay busy but it's never enough. Everywhere I go, i see couples. I don't wanna to spend time thinking of my ex boyfriends at all becuz they don't deserve my time and tears. Truth is they moved on. I didn't. I want to move on, I want them to see it. I feel so angry I am planning to get a very small tattoo, a butterfly. How do I push myself out? Are you like me?
Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 6 Answers Jul 24, 2012

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Nope, ex's are ex's for good reason, I don't live in the past, life's to short.

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You are good.

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What's the matter with me then? Why can't I be like others, strong and just get over it already?

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Remind yourself of the bad times, the annoying little habits etc! Find things to fill your time so you don't have the time to sit and obsess about them.

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Don't worry eventually you'll forget the exes and just be bitter

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Cruel! But quite possibly true.

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Very funny(!) lol

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It sounds like you are lonely, and thinking back to times when you had someone close.

Keeping busy is good for a while....but often you need to learn to trust again slowly, and take the risk of starting to let someone special close. Just take it slow.

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It does take a lot to trust someone. It took me 4 years to trust a friend only to be betrayed, I can't even begin to fathom why a friend did this and because of that I dumped that friendship and let go of a man I liked alot whom she told.

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I've never dated and I have no trust.

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Wow. I think you are lucky not to have suffered.

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