I try to have no expectations or to keep any expectations I might have in their proper perspective People will almost always disappoint or let you down; only you know what you really need and want. Situations are what they are; it's up to you to find ways to respond that don't harm yourself.
I am not beyond this flaw.I am sometimes unhappy with the realiy of my situation.I have also found if I lower some of my expectations to a more realistic level I gain happiness & I am more at piece with things
I used to. Now I accept the reality of futility.
no, I will be ok.
no. being unsettled doesn't work...
could dropping your expectations be a good idea?
you can choose to not struggle with it :)
living with uncertainty is an important lesson we all need to learn...perhaps one will have to unlearn few things first :)
From your answers i feel you are headed in the right direction...
No I just learn to live with the reality of it.
That's the way I see it, wishing it different never makes it true! :C