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I'm really not into small talk. I rarely talk with people and usually when I do there is proof that the person and I mutually lost interest in talking. My family really don't interest me either. Its the same thing EVERY TIME! Same drama! I'm thinking its because I read too much information. I'm always wanting to learn something new in religion, children, nature, people , etc.
LadyOutspoken LadyOutspoken 26-30, F 7 Answers Jun 30, 2012

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Nah. I agree. What most people call talking is sheer crap. repetetive. "How are you" "Fine, yourself" "Fine and so one. How was your night" "Fine, yorus" "Ha ham dark". Oh that was a joke was it.<br />
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It's all mindless crap isn't it. I like o talk about things in depth on topics I have in common wth someone but most are just so superficial they don't really have interest. It's just work, home, eat, sleep, Pat the kids on the head and back to work. Until Friday night whent ehy get drunk, dribble on and on and get late late, i yroubbg;e. The spend saturday suffering and feeling guily followed by lawn owing and gatden dutyon Sunday. The do it all again.<br />
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If you truly want to learn something new about religion, join in my debate question on if there are any real Christians here. You'll find the question on my page. Only one has said yes so far. Maybe it was You!!!!.

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http://www.experienceproject.com/question-answer/Is-There-Even-One-Christian-On-This-Site-Who-Hs-The-Guts-To-Debate-And-Answer-Questions-On-Your-Faith/996789
That's the url of my question. Only one person said yes and she hasn't showed yet. No Christians here at all apparently.

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I don't consider myself to be very social. I have often been told that I am too profound with my thoughts and questions. I believe it's important to listen to people. I think any topic can be interesting and important if it impacts peoples lives, if it has to do with finding solutions to situations they are facing, if it has to do with empowerment. I don't necessarily find interesting conversations need to revolve around facts, or worldly knowledge, they can, or they can be about very simple topics. It's a question of presence for me.

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A small few that I really open up to

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I think it is because you have lost the ability to be interested in the thoughts of others for their own sake. You are Type A and so singularly focused on self-improvement and constant self-betterment that you can't take joy in the things that are simple and beautifully common. I kind of feel bad far you. Hope you get a sense of perspective before it is clouded with extreme regret.

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I don't see how chatting about what other people are doing or who they are screwing, my job, my son, clothes, hair accessories and styles, shoes, purses, cute guys, making fun of people, talking about past events is enjoyable and beautiful. Its life, we live it, tell me something you wouldn't normally tell your mother. Do something that is not average. Who cares about clubbing and drinking. Who cares that your going to a concert. I do take the simple things very seriously because its all that's left lol. All I have is common. I enjoy a lot of things but why sit here and talk to you about my swimming, jogging, movies etc. Hell I know what happened, tell me why you liked the movie, or your favorite part....don't talk to me about what happened in the movie after we watched it together lol. Don't tell me every time i see you my son is BIG. Okay he's going to be a giant, we says this a year ago. No I don't care about the chicken fried steak you had at Dennys or how the men in your life are sorry. I don't care about celebrities and the way they live their lives.

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Good luck

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Don't need it, one day I will meet intelligent people to talk to.

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That's not what I was wishing you luck with, but whatever floats your boat.

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ooooooooooooohhh, yes please, SuperNaturalLady <br />
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............. teach me something<br />
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.........................remind me of something i've forgotten<br />
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................................help me expand my mind and understanding<br />
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but don't you ever<br />
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...................................EVER<br />
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start a conversation with<br />
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......................................... "have you heard about......."<br />
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cos i HATE gossip<br />
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.................................it damages my mind<br />
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................................................ and shrivels my will to live.<br />
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i totally with you<br />
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............................ thank you for making the point.<br />
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all respect to you,<br />
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from robbie<br />
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oh yes<br />
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.................... and a smile ;-))

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I have no friends i consider to be my intellectual inferiors. I have..no friends.

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I have been told im "too deep" when I talk. what the heck that means

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I was being a little flippant but essentially truthful. We have to balance what we think and what we say. i could go all day analyzing every action, gesture and word that happens around me but eventually it excludes other important things, like friends and just having a laugh for laughters sake. (which is paramount to being a healthy person) You have to make a judgement call on oneself so as to satisfy the intellect and to satisfy the human animal, both of which is who we are. Mind and emotion. I learned a while ago when not to anything because my contribution would be seen as being either a smart alec or patronising. Sometimes it just pays to be one of the gang. If you dont it guarantees exclusion and ultimately unhappiness. Hope ive made sense and some help.

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In a sense i'm already in the gang. It's life! I just don't need to talk about the small things because on all reality they will either relate, spread your business, or don't care . It's nothing wrong with talking about things like that persons life but generally it's the same thing. But oh well I guess the beautiful and common things of life is repetitive.

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It simply means most people don't think. Truly7, they just drift and do the minimum and notice nothing.

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Crap mate. One doesn't need to self analysyse all dy to think and discuss something other than trivia. You are focusing totaly on self when that is where the trivia is. If you sent that time getting to unederstand and know youtrself then it's worthwhile but you're not talking about that. You are talking trivia about talking trivia. Even worse. You could never be seen as patronsing, just self obsessed. Sure you have yo be one of the gang sometimes but it's best if you are very drunk when you are. Then you speak on their terms.

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