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  1. Woodwose - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Woodwose Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:25PM

    Holding a grudge takes energy, why would I want to waste my energy on someone, or something that has upset me? why would I hold them in my mind as that important? no, I prefer to forgive, because then I can move forward, happier, more content, while the person who upset me, still has that horrible personality, and they have to live with who they are.

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  2. luscious36ds - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by luscious36ds Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:23PM

    Hold a grudge forever!
    'NEVER GO TO BED ANGRY, STAY UP AND PLOT REVENGE"

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  3. kamiru - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by kamiru Mar 2nd, 2013 at 9:48AM

    forgive easily,

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  4. itsgood2beback - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by itsgood2beback Jul 14th, 2012 at 12:28AM

    i tend 2 hold grudges 4 too long

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  5. auburn14 - 46-50 years old

    Posted by auburn14 Jul 12th, 2012 at 3:58AM

    I used to forgive and forget but found over and over that this just sets you up to have the person do the same thing to you time and again. So holding a grudge is the perfect way to stop that. I figure if you put your hand out to be bitten by a dog once well fair enough, do it twice and you deserved it.

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  6. madhuratg - 31-35 years old

    Posted by madhuratg Jul 7th, 2012 at 1:56PM

    Grudge ruins one's own self. Forgiveness brings all together. But I never had an occasion either to grudge or to forgive..

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  7. 4UWisdom - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by 4UWisdom Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:45PM

    I choose to forgive...If God forgave me for all of my mess...and still...He is forgiving me now. Sure I can forgive a not hold grudges... Unless I feel I'm better than God..."NOT".

    I rather forgive and love my enemy or those who have persecuted me. I fear God if I do less.

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  8. Soul1958 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Soul1958 Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:43PM

    i think things thoroughly through, really, then i forgive ... though many do understand that about me, they take advantages of my quality of maturity, especially in friendships i've had and lost over the last 4 decades.

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  9. 5thApprentice - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by 5thApprentice Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:27PM

    I try to forgive as much as possible, lord knows I've seeked forgiveness many times, why deny others what I too seeked?

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  10. inspiration1 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by inspiration1 Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:25PM

    Though I am able to restrain myself to do and mean no harm, I can't forget and forgive easily.

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  11. Soul1958 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by Soul1958 Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:37PM

    Hey inspiration2, it doesn't say anywhere in The Holy Bible we have to forget, just to forgive or else we will not be forgiven. We are to forgive upto 70 x 7, so how can you FORGET when people sin against you in a magnitude of trespass?

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  12. Zoeyredbird - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Zoeyredbird Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:23PM

    For me it depends. For most people I forgive them but for some people (my abusers) I wont ever forgive them for what they did to me or my friends and family.

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  13. yourbro - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by yourbro Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:23PM

    I forgive, but never forget

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  14. TheReikoku - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by TheReikoku Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:22PM

    I forgive easily, but I probably won't talk to the person who hurt me again. I mean I'll be civil towards them and talk about superficial things like the weather or something, but don't expect me to be their best friend.

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  15. GirlThinking - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by GirlThinking Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:21PM

    The Grudge

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  16. bristow1 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by bristow1 Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:21PM

    i try to forgive, but not always easy, occasionally i will hold a grudge.

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  17. Indie42 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Indie42 Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:21PM

    I wish I was more consistent and forgave things easier. Depends on who did what.

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  18. Methen - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Methen Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:21PM

    I have a border line if someone crosses it they pay the price...

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  19. kbgloves1 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by kbgloves1 Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:21PM

    Awwww shucks, I forgive you

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  20. dollie5 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by dollie5 Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:20PM

    I forgive easily, but sometimes I feel like thats a bad thing to do.

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  21. Lacsar - 36-40 years old

    Posted by Lacsar Jul 7th, 2012 at 12:20PM

    i will NEVER speak to you again - EVER!!.......well ok - i forgive you.....

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