Holding a grudge takes energy, why would I want to waste my energy on someone, or something that has upset me? why would I hold them in my mind as that important? no, I prefer to forgive, because then I can move forward, happier, more content, while the person who upset me, still has that horrible personality, and they have to live with who they are.
Grudge ruins one's own self. Forgiveness brings all together. But I never had an occasion either to grudge or to forgive..
I choose to forgive...If God forgave me for all of my mess...and still...He is forgiving me now. Sure I can forgive a not hold grudges... Unless I feel I'm better than God..."NOT".<br />
I rather forgive and love my enemy or those who have persecuted me. I fear God if I do less.
i think things thoroughly through, really, then i forgive ... though many do understand that about me, they take advantages of my quality of maturity, especially in friendships i've had and lost over the last 4 decades.
I try to forgive as much as possible, lord knows I've seeked forgiveness many times, why deny others what I too seeked?
Though I am able to restrain myself to do and mean no harm, I can't forget and forgive easily.
Hey inspiration2, it doesn't say anywhere in The Holy Bible we have to forget, just to forgive or else we will not be forgiven. We are to forgive upto 70 x 7, so how can you FORGET when people sin against you in a magnitude of trespass?
For me it depends. For most people I forgive them but for some people (my abusers) I wont ever forgive them for what they did to me or my friends and family.
I forgive, but never forget
i try to forgive, but not always easy, occasionally i will hold a grudge.
I wish I was more consistent and forgave things easier. Depends on who did what.
Awwww shucks, I forgive you
I forgive easily, but sometimes I feel like thats a bad thing to do.
i will NEVER speak to you again - EVER!!.......well ok - i forgive you.....
If they are important to me I forgive, if not, i'll hold a grudge.