I prefer to spread the misery around. If I have to suffer so should everyone else.
Suffering alone makes me feel lonely and I usually make the problem ten times worse but when I share my suffering with others I feel as though I'm depressing them or that I come across as an attention seeker and I always tend to tell the wrong people and they don't seem to understand. These days I only share my suffering on here with people who have experienced similar things or with my close family who just want to help and support me.
Alone, not many people truly give a **** about other people's problems. I don't delude myself into thinking I'm any different.
I need to hare
I mean SHARE Iol
Sometimes I will open my heart to someone but I'm a better listener than talker
but then they get tired with tym
yeah my bf never gets tired of me
yeah u will definitely hv one in your life
We beg to differ
to suffer alone..... it's better to sacrifice alone than to suffer others because of your suffering..if you really love those people dont let them hurt...and dont let them get HURT by YOU!
that depends on the person whom you share with...if you see that, that person is not strong enough to share what you suffer it's better to keep your mouth shut...if you you think she/he is stronger than you to help you lift your baggages and sufferings then so be it, if that will makes you feel better....but if that will cause him pain then better to suffer alone....it's like you are drowning and you let your rescuer get drowned too....
oh sorry for that.... (take my hugs) ; )
your welcome..hope you nailed it in your head..heheh
Believe me they don't want to hear about it,so i suffer alone.
Depends on your suffering,some sufferings can be personal.I'm sure you'll find the right friend.
Yes, that's why friends can never understand,but that's my situation. So who do you confined in when you need to talk about things?
So why pretend,don't you feel worse?
That's fair point. You can't just tell anyone.
That's true too,exactly right.
I prefer to suffer alone.
I'll be fine,i have no choice. Thanks
I don't like people to know when I suffer. It is an open door for them to know my weaknesses. I prefer not to show any weaknesses so that people don't know where to hit when they need to