No one who is married should "do as the please" you have a partner! Yes you can go out with friends and even late nights are cool because your still individuals as well...but until the next day no way!
My husband thought that was OK once. He learned.
so you thought controlling him was what was right?
Yeah, that's it. It's perfectly ok to go out drinking, supposedly coming home after the bars close at 2. But instead passing out at someone's after party, not answering his phone and then coming home in the morning. If me and the trust I give not wanting to be so disrespected by my husband is controlling, then yeah, that's it.
I think it was smart of him not to drive drunk, or risk getting arrested for being publicly intoxicated while walking home.
every situation is different. I myself don't answer my cell phone if I feel "tracked"or wanna get away.
If I am not rusted as a big boy... better to be alone in my eyes/ Not saying there is no place for consideration and respect of another's feelings
Every situation is different. I wouldn't say he was "feeling tracked" as I only called twice. You're right, he's a big boy. And big boys pay consequences when they make poor choices. In our marriage dynamic, he wouldn't like it at all if I was supposed to come home, but disappeared until sun-up. It would be disrespectful to his trust, and likewise he made that mistake, and he knows it.
He had a DD with him, lol. We aren't that silly.
No, we most often go out together or not at all.
We each have 1 coffee date a week with our besties that is separate and usually till midnight or so.
No, but spouses who don't care certainly do.
No. We go to bed pretty early
Yup. Sure do.
It should be that way but NO.
I also do not love my spouse.
If I did I think I would have no problem with that but I would need to know without a shadow of a doubt that she was as committed to I as I am to her...
someday will have that I hope. and if she or I feel like going out- OK have fun see ya tommorrow!
I would not exactly call them friends.....
I sure don't, but he always drags me around to hang out with his friend's when they are drunk. He would throw a fit otherwise. gotta love staying out till 4am while your preggers and sober. :/