Not a facade but rather a 'block' I try to block myself from getting close to people.
Very rarely. I feel like putting up a facade would become exhausting, because how do you remember who you really are or I guess maybe you're just trying to forget.
Not a facade, just a part of me.. When i'm with my friends i'm crazy silly, with my coworkers i'm respectable and professional, with customers i'm friendly and helpful, with family i'm a little silly- when i'm meeting someone new I act like me, just without showing all of my crazy at once
I am me with everyone, I suppose I just regulate what levels of me and my silliness is appropriate per person and situation
I threw my many mask (facade) that I had been hiding behind away many years ago when I found myself and learn to truly accept my self as I was and others as they are........ I go with the flow of life and no longer fight against the tides, I go with them and the ride is much easier now.
It was and has been...... I am a better person from the inside out for having taking this journey that I now wish I could take others with me, but my journey is not meant to be the same path for another...... they have their own journey to take.
Just look with in, dont judge, and know that ACCEPTANCE of OTHERS (as they are) is far more important than love.
........ all things are happening as they were meant to be.
(good & bad) --so dont fight it --go with the FLOW!!
I think its useless to not be who you really are all the time!<br />
If someone is phoney around me, then I just let them do it elsewhere!
I believe that everyone can hold up "The Lie" for 3 months!
Especially in a relationship, but around that 3 month period the "LIE" comes to the surface and you really get to see what that person has been hiding, if they are hiding their true self! I don't have that kind of energy, if you don't like what you see when you meet me then its time for you to leave and it won't hurt my feelings!