I rather see them flourish in their own ways and see them go over and beyond whatever I did or will do.
I encourage them to be their own unique selves. They are precious to me and I had them because I thought it would be fun to see what kind of people they'd grow up to be.
They are who they are. What I try to do is point out the bumps in the road! Oh, and BTW there is some good music pre mid 90's!
Neutral would be difficult, for I see things from my perspective and from this can lead, but certainly am not limmiting them to it. For example, I had not innitiated them to any relligions and am explaining differences between them.
I gave them the basics and they have to go on from there