Do you regret you abortion?

Damn right I do. I always wonder what my baby wouldve
Looked like and what I was missing out on.

I carried the regret with me for 32 years now....and I will for the rest of my life......It ids not in the forefront of my mind anymore.....There were days that I would watch and see a kid....and think.....That is what littlke Johnny would be doing right now......

Yes I names the baby little Johnny.....I had to do that....So that I coulkd bury the chilkd in my heart....ANd try to not put it behind me.....But to deal with the remorse.....And I picked a nice place....and while I was alone....I buried that child.....Not for real......But I wrote a letter to Johnny.....and put all of my hopes....and dreams.....and fears.....and what made me do it in the letter....ANd then I buried the letter.....ANd that day was the day that I was able to start enjoying my children that I bore full turm.....

And to any and all ladies...and the gents.....Please feel free to mail me.....I will and am willing to chat.....and give any help that I can....ANd if you just what to chat on the topic....Well that is all right also

I was 13 God forgive me.

Actually it was not until about 5 years after the event that I started regretting it. At the time all I felt was relief, my relationship was bad, finances were not great and I had two kids that were almost to Jr high. When I was driving by the grade school I realized that I would have had a child there and I started wondering and regretting at that point. I could have cut back and sacrificed and had the child but didn't want to start over again with the diapers and daycare and sleeplessness. I never told anyone about it, I made the appointment and never told the boyfriend, any of my best friends, anyone in my family. So at the time I felt relief, but now I do at times regret it, it is mixed for me

Yes. I regret not being able to have my baby. Being pregnant should have been the happiest time of my life: instead I wanted to die. It was the right decision at the time. And as long as women are penalised for pregnancy (jobs, school year, social censure, lack of support, humiliation, abandonment, etc.) then abortion has to remain a legal choice.

no because I never had one!

Very mixed feelings for me. I terminated my pregnancy at 24 weeks, my baby girl was in a lot of trouble and we knew that nothing could be done medically to improve her chances of survival following her birth. Most people, even anti abortionists, will absolve me of my guilt, but I lovemy baby, and I will always regret that I didn't try to carry her to full term. It may be the case that she was in a lot of pain, so if that was the case I am grateful she didn't have to suffer any more.
I believe that no woman ever makes the decision lightly, and if she chooses to end the pregnancy, it is because she does not want the child to suffer for the things she cannot provide, before, during and after the pregnancy.
I regret being in a situation where I had to make that choice. I do not believe that any human being has the right to tell a woman if abortion is right or wrong for her, the only other person who has the right to be involoved in her decision is the embryo/ foetus' father.

i've never had one n i don't have kids.. but i don't believe in abortions.. i don't put people down for getting them but it does make me mad that women do get them.. everybody knows all of the ways to prevent getting prego.. so why not use them so u won't end up getting in a situation ur not ready for? i just think that it's unfair to take a life away and abort when there are women out there who can't have children.

I regret my mother's; I don't think she does, though.

I don't, not once. If I had to go back I would do it again.

I did use birth control, the pill failed me.

yes i do regret it but in a way, i dont at the same time. i hate myself that i broke my own heart and the love of my life's (the father) heart as well. i was 16 and pregnant with twins after he'd already dumped me and still with two years of high school left...it breaks my heart every single day but i know im better off this way...it was the hardest choice i've ever had to make in my life

Yes I do every day! It is something you will never get ova some people can just block it out but it will always be there in the back of your mind! I have 3 kids now and I wasnt ready to have any of them but I am blessed to have them!

every day of my life...its been almost a year and every 26th of the month (the day it happened) its like relivin it all over again..it was traumatizing, and i wish i couldve known what the baby was, what it looked like, if it had dimples like his parents...we were young and alone and afraid...my boyfriend was out of state in school and it just wouldnt work...if i could go back id change it...100%

i never had one!!!