A first date should NOT be intimate at all
NEVER allow this to happen as you may regret this later, it takes time to become intimate
I've always put out on the first date, and have never regretted it. I'm not a person who gets embarrassed about sex nor afraid to go for what i want when i want it....but that doesn't mean everyone is the same way and nothing wrong with waiting or being uncomfy if an intimate scene in a movie is on(not sure which you mean)
I just go for it. life is too short. Your a bit older that me so more so should just go for it. You only live once
only if i dont know them well or if i know that they arent in my level of interest
Need to elaborate please cos I am a bit thick tonight.
Assuming you mean in a movie during a first date?