Yes, but that was 20 years ago. She was my soul-tie. Her place is now in my memory and not in my heart. Moving the ex from the heart to memory is hard, but is possible.

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I do. He is my best friend. I feel very fortunate that we have remained in eachothers' lives, and in a positive way, because for the longest time I thought there would be nothing but hatred/obsession between us. Ta-daa!

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see that is the thing i really don't want to be his friend either.....i know he was my best friend but he hurt me so much and he did it more then once.....it is kinda like i wouldn't show him my back cause he would stab me again

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It sounds like he has served his purpose in your life, and now it's time to let go, and try to see if you've learned anything. I'm sorry you were hurt. ):

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fukking hell no

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no. i chose to stop loving her.

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how long did it take? I don't want to love my ex but i still feel for him.

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I think if it was a very meaningful relationship and you get past all the hurt and pain of splitting up, you will always have a degree of love for your ex. I love my girls' dad very much, but I can't make it work with him. We decided that our kids would be happier coming from a broken home than living in one.

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i guess that is my problem, i think we had a good marriage....i know that it was a bit one sided but he hurt me so much i don't want to care for him

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No, but thanks for asking.

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I care for my ex... YES. But I will not put myself through the things I went through neither

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that is kinda what my friend said but he said he still loved his ex...but he wouldn't live with her.

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So he might be going back for a few flings then I take it?

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no that door is closed....i might catch something.....lol. I just worry about him because he has been making choices that are stupid.

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Dumb choices. Everyone has done that lol

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yea but he keeps doing it over and over again.....different choices but he keeps doing stupid stuff.....

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