I really do.
What do you mean by taking care of? Do you mean feeding them and ensuring that they have shelter? Of course. If however you mean that they should get a free ride in college, new homes, automatic citizenship because they got by security....Hell NO!
Without a doubt
it's a shame how some people look at them as being lazy and rationalize that they shouldn't.
Yes. And most do if they think about it that's why we support things like taking children away from abusive parents. It's just that no one wants to feel taken advantage of by people who can do for themselves.
NO NO NO
Look after the rich and middle class first
Yes, but with the caveat that "taking care of" includes helping them to self sufficiency.
Yes but in a way that they are consulted.
to a certain extent yes.
To a point yes ... as the adage goes "teach a man to fish ... "