it can help but for me its COMMUNICATION
Yes! I hate routines. Constistency is good but too much is boring.
Yes and no..Of course it's fun to do something out of the blue with a loved one once in awhile but being consistently spontaneous really depends on who you're with, some people find comfort in a routine and breaking it often may cause a problem.
sure......but it has to be well planned
women need time to be spontaneous
Yes ..it can help :-) x