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Do you think he'll cheat?

My sister was married to an abusive man (he would make her do sexual things to him even if she didn't feel like it, was verbally abusive, etc), and she had met and started affair with a married man. About 3 months into the affair, my sister had enough, she told her husband to get out, without execting her lover to do the same with his wife, anyway, the very next day he decided to end it with his wife, he said he loved her and that he wanted a life with her. That was 9 months ago. Anyway, I've met him many times (he doesn't know that I know how they met), he seems very sweet and sincere, I truly think he loves my sister and that they just both made mistakes in their first marriages and found their soulmate in each other. Do you think that because he cheated on his wife in the past that he'd do the same to her? I know my sister and she wouldn't dream of doing that again, she hated the sneaking around, etc, she just wants a normal, happy life again. What do you think?

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robyn	Posted Sep 9th, 2009 at 5:55PM you can't build happiness on someone else's misery. what they did caused a lot of hurt and misery. they may be happy now, but someday when the bloom is off the rose of their relationship, they could easily cheat again because it's a familiar answer to the same problem. i sure hope i'm wrong, and they have a long and happy relationship. Rated: +2Vote for this!
camael	Posted Sep 9th, 2009 at 7:52PM I think it is possible for her to have a "normal" life with this man. Rated: +2Vote for this!
underconstruction	Posted Sep 9th, 2009 at 9:35PM Maybe not for a while, but when life goes back to normal and things are not so hot, and heavy and risky anymore, he might try his luck elsewhere. Rated: +2Vote for this!
miguelote	Posted Sep 9th, 2009 at 7:57PM Would always be in the back of either of their minds should things go nasty.Yes I think he or she would definately be comfortable doing it, since having done it before. Their beginning ways may even be brought up in heated arguements. Rated: +1Vote for this!
wiseowl	Posted Sep 9th, 2009 at 5:45PM I think it was a phase and the future will be better, for all. Rated: +1Vote for this!
midlifemadness	Posted Sep 9th, 2009 at 5:52PM No clue.... They each did it so I guess the playing field is equal.... I would hope that if they ever have any problems they will try to communicate them to each other instead of sneaking around and having an affair Rated: +1Vote for this!
lkng4frends	Posted Sep 9th, 2009 at 8:45PM You will never know what the answer is, but only him. Whether its a good answer or not on what your looking for, it seems like time will only tell with them and their relationship. If he does cheat, be there for her and support her on any decision you make. Rated: +1Vote for this!
unicorn59	Posted Sep 9th, 2009 at 9:42PM Your sister needs some counseling...seriously....and I am not trying to offend you, but she picked an abuser, the first time, and a married man the second....She needs to find out, why she is choosing the men she is choosing.....otherwise, she is doomed, to keep repeating the same mistakes, over and over... The two of them, starting off on such deceitful ground, have the cards stacked against them....A second marriage has about a 40% success rate, statistically, and that's not counting the fact that they both entered the relationship, under the guise of infidelity....Neither one of them can be trusted, in my opinion....they have both crossed that line, before..... Rated: +1Vote for this!

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