Do you think his family was being rude?
So yesterday my bf and I went out for lunch for his birthday and it was my very first time meeting his brother and sister-in-law. During the whole time, neither or them really asked me questions about myself...they were laughing and talking amongst themselves and bringing up inside jokes. I tried making conversation every now and then, but it seemed like they weren't really interested. I felt a little stupid and felt like they didn't care about me all that much....do you think they acted inappropriately or should I just lighten up?
4 Answers to "Do you think his family was being rude?"
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Sounds like they are ********, what did your bf do?
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I talked to him about later, and he told me to stop being a "whiney c***".....imagine that.
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If you ask if they were being rude, then they were. Nevertheless, I'd continue to try to get to know them, realizing in advance they are a pretty tight-knit group and it will take time for them to come around to know you.
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Sounds uncivilized. Maybe they are uneducated? Some people don't know how to socialize and feel inadequate with strangers so they limit themselves to inside jokes and keep their distance. I would just give it a chance, maybe they will warm up to you eventually. If you are comfortable with your bf, then ask him what he thinks.
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Posted by Sinaname Aug 1st, 2012 at 11:20PM
I don't think they meant to be. People who know each other are going to seem that way to someone new or someone on the outside.
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