Oh God, good riddance! He sounds absolutely awful.<br />
He may be right in that now that you've gone through that crap with him, you can use him as a "who not to date" guide and avoid idiots like him in the future.
not for sure whats gotten into to him..... but he sounds --heck IDK
Not at all. A person who truly knows me knows I want what is best for life. You look like you are as bad at picking partners as I am. Good luck.
I'm afraid my luck is up. No worries. You have hope.
He sounds like a poindexter
Yes and no, if your intentionally being hurtful than someone that knows you will feel it more acutely. If its caused indirectly by a situation or circumstance than someone that knows you should be able to realize that and be understanding. It sounds like this guy is trying to soothe his ego by attempting to make you feel guilty; doesn't sound like someone who really knows or understands you.
Some people can see you more clearly than you see yourself. They can be disappointed that you are stalled in 'becoming' the person which they have perceived and which they cherish.
Well, nobody is completely worthless... even he can still serve as a bad example...<br />
All those bad experiences he put you though made you stronger and maybe even smarter. You might be able to spot guys like him now from afar, before you let them get close to you. The burnt child dreads the fire. Still nobody deserves a medal for burning children in order to teach them that fire is hot.<br />
I think he just wants to have the final say, so he can feel good no matter the outcome. If you are unhappy, he will claim that it's your own fault for leaving him. If you are happy, he will claim it's all thanks to him. Either way he is the good guy in his book.