Do you think it's a curse?
I've only been to 2 weddings in my lifetime and the other weddings I was supposed to go to, I was denied through other people including my bro.
I've never been on holiday with a partner. Just my parents and my sis.
I rarely get dates and when I do get dates, I get dumped a lot.
I never get to live with a man and be happy
Never had a relationship.
Never had a proper date - flowers and the works
Never been told I was loved or held lovingly.
Not engaged or married
Because of all the good things I've never experienced, does it mean I would grow old on my own? I am 41.
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Listen I feel what you feel I'm in high school and yes I haven't dated anybody in 5 Years and a football pla
yer and wrestler and happy if your not meant to be with anybody then you serve a special purpose I believe to just focus on your own life and look forward to the tome ahead of this life and the next. Key is always be happy and love no matter what. Like (1)
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Thanks. The only purpose i have is my son but it's not enough. I want something for myself. More for myself. You're doing things you love that keeps u going. I love graphic design and tried to get a job and it was imposs for me so i gave up. Thats prob why i am depressed. I never got mos of my dreams. :(
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Listen everything in life doesn't come with a welcome sign on it, it takes hard work to achieve what you want some sweat, practice, or even extra help. Nothing is impossible to accomplish you just have to dust your self off and get up again and wrestle the bull until you win. Trust its better to keep trying and never quit than to quit, and don't feel depressed because this happens to everybody in today world, those actors, hall of fame athletes, they all got there with hard work and extra in their own time. God never said life was going to be easy so he gives us tools but its up to us to use them. Never give up, tell me how would it feel if your son asked " MOMMY WHY DID YOU GIVE UP?"
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I think you should get out more
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wow...I'd start by crashing the weddings and boink the groomsmen.
Desperate time take desperate measures.
On the other hand 41 isn't really that old, I'm turning 50 in a few years and have met some of the most delightful women that have been in their 40's.
By that I mean that they are who they are and seem to be in a comfort zone of owning their lives.
I can't help but think if I knew then what I know now, I may not have ever had a serious relationship until after turning 40.
One woman's curse is another woman's bliss. I think you just need to learn to hunt for the right man by being in the places, he's at and be ready to make a move take your shot.
You can't hit the bull's eye on the target unless you take a shot.
Perfect practice makes perfect.
I give you two years and you'll bag a trophy husband.Like (1)
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Loved your advice......your bet is on ::-)
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Yes! You're cursed!
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Are you serious or joking cuz `i can't tell.
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you are cursed because you let things get to you! First you must learn to enjoy life on your own and everything else will faill into place! And going to other people's weddings is stupid, they only invite people so they can show off! My wife and I married in front of a judge with his clerk and secretary as witnesses and we had each other all to ourselves! We have been extremely happy for almost 30 yrs. and no one had a say in our nuptuals! I sincerely hope you find happiness and joy!
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Posted by thisisevenlessfunnow Apr 30th, 2012 at 12:25AM
Wedding and dates are for idiots.
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Reply by Myalee Apr 30th, 2012 at 12:28AM
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