I would help my family first
Its a niece....Its not a "direct" family so i guess it depends on the situation and the relationship between the niece/nephew and the person who is marrying. If they were close then i say yes. If it jus any niece/nephew then i would go on with my agenda first.
i'm guessing this isn't about your own marriage and kids.
i am not going to put my own life on hold for the sake of somebody else's daughter. i'd probably let her come and live with us after the wedding, if that makes you feel any better.
was she a junky, by any chance?
It depends. There isn't enough information here for me to say what I would do. Is the niece a child or an adult? Is the potential helper emotionally able to help this niece/nephew? What does their spouse say? What kind of help is needed? Is this a lifetime commitment? How would it affect the helper's own children?
Edit: Oh, there are no children or spouse yet?
Aww, bless you!
It's OK. You should only help if you want to.
You just be available but if that neice or nephew isn't willing to deal with your decision, then you can't.
this doesn't need to be asked-kids
Some Church- why didn't they help her
well, then do what the hell you want-this story's just gonna keep getting better...isn't it
Sure you are
or Trolling on the River