Right. I try never react, but always have positive action !
Yes, for a period of time.<br />
More than likely though, a portion of your latter life will become overwhelmed with "what happened to you" AND "how you reacted to it".<br />
You would be much better off paying close attention to BOTH issues when they occur, especially if your reaction does not fully allow you to "feel and acknowledge" what has happened to you...No matter how devastating that may be.